Get Married, Have Babies, Join a Church: A Pastor's Conversations With a Generation Navigating Love, Life, and God's Timing

Why are so many Christians postponing marriage, delaying children, and drifting away from meaningful commitment to the local church?

In Get Married, Have Babies, Join a Church, Sean DeMars examines a growing pattern among Christians: the tendency to postpone the ordinary callings God has given His people until they have achieved the four "C's" of modern adulthood—credentials, career, cash, and comfort. Drawing from Scripture and pastoral experience, DeMars argues that these priorities often reflect the assumptions of our culture more than the wisdom of God's Word.

This book explores Scripture's teaching on:

· The goodness of marriage and God's design for the family

· Why so many Christians delay marriage and whether they should

· Whether children are blessings or burdens

· The fears surrounding money, careers, and raising a family

· The rare gift of singleness and the ordinary calling of marriage

· Why the local church should be the center of the Christian life

Rather than offering simplistic answers or ignoring difficult situations, DeMars thoughtfully engages common objections, addresses hard cases, and calls believers to evaluate their assumptions in light of God's Word.

Get Married, Have Babies, Join a Church is an invitation to reject fear, embrace God's design, and build a life around the ordinary means of grace.